9 Ways to Keep the Passion Alive in a Long-Term Relationship

Want to keep the excitement and romance in a long term relationship? The key is to treat it like a new romance! Here are some tips:

1. Hold hands, hug and give quick kisses often

Nothing is as good for the soul and the emotional health of a person as the human touch. It keeps a connection and closeness, no matter what we are doing. An enthusiastic hug uplifts us, a quick kiss says “glad to see you”.

2. Show your love in small ways

Leave a love note on partner’s pillow, stuck in a purse, briefcase or a book he’s reading. Bring home a special treat you know your partner likes. Text, call or email him to say, “I’m thinking of you.” Sometimes the little gestures make the biggest impression.

3. Shake things up

Break through the “I’m so bored” barrier that often plagues long-term relationships by learning something or doing something new together. Sharing activities of mutual interest is the glue that makes relationship work and create happiness.

4. Be generous with praise

Say “thank you,” offer a hug, pay your partner a compliment. When you feel grateful for the good things in your life, you attract more of those good things to you.

5. Create intimate time

Before rushing out the door in a frenzy in the morning, get up one hour earlier and share breakfast in bed, read an inspirational passage aloud, or go for an early morning walk. At the end of the day, instead of plunking down in front of the TV or computer, give each other a massage, take a shower together or do something novel like reading erotic literature out loud.

6. Communicate clearly, honestly and frequently

Talking to each other is one of the main tools we use to connect with each other. When we extend ourselves and let our partner know who we are, what we need and how we feel, we open the doors to greater intimacy.

7. Make love often and with passion

Make the intimate part of your relation a high priority. Take time to “make love” rather than just have sex. Use candles, perfume, or whatever you like.

8. Keep others out of your relationship

Friends and family could turn on your partner and get in the middle of your relationship. Want to protect your love? Keep others out of it!

9. The main rule: always choose LOVE!